From Munches to Meaning: BDSM Communities, Connection, and Social Networks

• In Event: 50661 - Section on Sociology of Sexualities Roundtables
  In Refereed Roundtable (60 minute): Table 2: Making/Being in Communities

Abstract

This study explores BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, Masochism) communities through a mixed-methods approach. Drawing on qualitative interviews with 96 participants and surveys from 1,800 respondents, the research examines the role of BDSM communities in fostering identity validation, social integration, and mutual support. Findings reveal that while online platforms serve as critical entry points for newcomers, in-person events like munches and play parties facilitate deeper interpersonal connections and trust-building. Survey results are used to examine rates of community participation, finding participants’ experiences and community participation is shaped by gender, sexuality, age, race, and class. Surveys also reveal that higher rates of community participation is related to larger increases in self-rated wellbeing after beginning to participate in BDSM and more reported benefits gained from other BDSM practitioners. Ultimately, BDSM communities offer members opportunities for personal growth, resistance against societal norms, and meaningful social engagement beyond kink-related activities. These findings challenge misconceptions of BDSM as deviant or insular, positioning these communities as vibrant, multidimensional spaces for connection and empowerment.

Authors

• Arielle Kuperberg, University of Maryland, Baltimore County

• Alicia M. Walker, Missouri State University