Child-parent violence: Taking back control in an uncertain world

• In Event: Roundtable: Hot Potato - Blame and Responsibility Surrounding Delinquency and Youth Violence

Abstract

Violence perpetrated by a child against their parent or caregiver is a salient but often-hidden problem, and it can have a significant impact on the entire family. Once a child has taken control of the dynamics from the parent, it can be difficult for them to reestablish authority, and the stigma of being victimized by their own child can hinder their willingness to reach out for support. Parents may look to other parties, such as social media or peers, to explain their child’s behavior. They may feel that they do not have the ability to adequately address the behaviors, with their child able to thwart their attempts or social circumstances making them ineffective or illogical. However, as programs such as the Non-Violent Resistance Program suggest, working with other supports and authority figures in the child’s life can not only help the parent feel less alone but can also offer and more holistic approach to address adolescent violence, potentially across social contexts like the home and school.

Author

• Hannah Sedlacek, University of South Carolina