Toward a Theory of Resilience and Relational Load (TRL)

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Abstract

Resilience is one of the most profound constructs across disciplines. Yet, the atheoretical nature of the research on resilience continues to make it an elusive construct. A new theory called the Theory of Resilience and Relational Load (TRL) is advanced to fill this void in the literature. The TRL focuses on resilience/growth as a process of calibration in relationships. Specifically, it examines how relational partners’ and family members’ perceptions of stress and the communicative maintenance of their relationships on a daily basis influence their appraisals and communication during stressful moments. The theory also incorporates elements of ego depletion as a way to explain how these appraisals and communication patterns influence risk and resilience. Finally, the concept of relational load is set forth, which is the wear and tear that chronic stress and depletion of resources (emotional, psychological and relational) during repeated, stress-related conversations have on relationships.

Authors

• Tamara D. Afifi, U of Iowa

• Anne Merrill, Pennsylvania State University

• Sharde Davis, U of California - Santa Barbara